Dear Diary:
I called up a restaurant that we had been wanting to go to for a while when we visit New York (my wife and I are both native New Yorkers). A young woman answered the phone.
âHi, Iâd like to make reservations for Valentineâs Day,â I said.
âSure, sir, I think I can do that,â she replied. âLetâs see, Friday the 14th . . . â
âDo you have anything available at 7?â
âYes, we do. Seven oâclock, table for two?â
âYes, thatâs great,â I said as I gave her my name.
âYou know,â the woman said, âof all the reservations Iâve taken for Valentineâs Day so far, you are the first guy to have called. All the other reservations have been made by women.â
âReally?â I asked, somewhat surprised.
âIâm even looking at the other names that are here on the list, and theyâre all womenâs names. So youâre the only guy. You get big points for that in my book.â
âThanks. Do you mind if I tell you something?â I asked.
âSure, go ahead.â
âI picked your restaurant and the time because thatâs what my wife told me to do.â
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