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Asking a Homeless Man His Name
Dear Diary:
I was walking down the stairs from Eighth Avenue to the subway entrance when I saw a man, in his 40s to 50s, standing in front of the subway turnstiles. It didnât seem that he had been out on the streets long enough to acquire that worn-out, beat-up look that comes to everyone if they have to brave the streets long enough. He was fidgeting like a boy in elementary school who wanted to ask the teacher for something but the words just werenât coming out. In a voice that was semi-frantic he said: âIâve been hungry; can you give me a dollar to get something to eat?â
I found a $5 bill and gave it to him, something Iâve done fewer times than I wish I could have, but it was what happened next that was truly extraordinary. In a moment of exultant spontaneity he smiled, opened up his arms and in one motion hugged me and kissed me on the ear.
I always introduce myself and ask them their names because, for most of the world that passes them by, they have become people who no longer have names. His name was Francisco, and, as he left, he thanked me again. I said: âNo problem. Hopefully things will get better and youâll pass it on.â
I walked into the train with a smile on my face. It wasnât that his show of gratitude affirmed that Iâm somehow virtuous, because it wasnât about me, and anyway, more than anything, Iâm just a guy who saw another person and happened to have a $5 bill to spare. Maybe it was his spontaneous childlike wonder, which is mostly missing from all of us whoâve âgrown up,â let alone those in more difficult circumstances.
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Updated 6:58 a.m.
Good Tuesday morning to you. It is 29 degrees.
Let the Mets and Yankees laze in the Florida sunshine.
Here in New York City, itâs time to play ball.
The boysâ and girlsâ seasons open this week in the Public Schools Athletic League.
For a glimpse of the high school softball action, we went to Brooklyn, where Juan Morel Campos took on Clara Barton on Monday.
Most of the Campos Lady Cougars wore hoodies, hats, gloves and scarves as they trotted out to the field in Sternberg Park in East Williamsburg.
It was 33 degrees.
âJump! Jump! Itâs so cold,â Judit Gonzalez of the Cougars shouted as she hopped in the dugout, arms bunched.
When frozen bat met frozen ball, it stung. Players cried out.
The Cougarsâ pitcher, Gisela Gonzalez, wore short sleeves to show the opposition how tough she was.
It worked.
She hit two home runs and led the Cougars to a 25-4 victory.
The Cougars play again on Wednesday.
The forecast calls for temperatures in the 40s and a good chance of rain.
It doesnât matter, said the Cougarsâ coach, Matthew Schorr.
âOnce you get into the game, you forget about the elements,â he said.
Hereâs what else you need to know.
WEATHER
Sunny and a little warmer today with a high of 43. Say hi to the still-almost-full moon tonight.
Clouds return tomorrow with a bit of rain.
COMMUTE
Subways: No delays. Check latest status.
Rails: O.K. Check L.I.R.R., Metro-North or N.J. Transit status.
Roads: Big delays on Thruway southbound in Rockland County. Check traffic map or radio report on the 1s or the 8s.
Alternate-side parking is in effect all week.
COMING UP TODAY
- Itâs the last day to register for the 2014 New York City Marathon.
- Students in the Good Shepherd Services after-school programs take a trip to City Hall, where Mayor de Blasio will receive them.
- A black firefighters group announces details of a settlement reached with the city last night of a class-action discrimination lawsuit.
- A protest against McDonaldâs labor practices outside the fast-food restaurantâs location on Fifth Avenue and 33rd Street. 11:30 a.m.
- A documentary, âThe Pass It On Project,â about a group of Brooklyn eighth graders visiting sites of civil rights struggles, screens at the Museum of the City of New York. 5 p.m. [Free]
- Havenât you always wanted to learn how to Photoshop hair? Hereâs your big chance, at Noble Desktop in SoHo. 6 p.m. [$50]
- The Times obituary writer Bruce Weber reads from his book âLife Is a Wheel: Love, Death, Etc., and a Bike Ride Across America,â at BookCourt in Brooklyn. 7 p.m. [Free]
- Hear dead authors â" including James Baldwin, John Updike and James Jones â" read from their work through the miracle of recording, at the Center for Fiction in Midtown. 7 p.m. [Free]
- Income gap, 1890 edition: a historian talks about his book âProgressive Inequality: Rich and Poor in New York, 1890-1920,â at Book Culture near Columbia University. 7 p.m. [Free]
- Not just a reading: âDerangement of the Sensesâ includes burlesque performers dancing as their favorite literary characters while âacoustic and electronic music cacophonously collide,â at Le Poisson Rouge on Bleecker Street. 7:30 p.m. [Free]
- For more events, see The New York Times Arts & Entertainment guide.
IN THE NEWS
- New Yorkâs State Senate rejected a bill that would make illegal immigrants eligible for tuition aid. [New York Times]
- Thatâs not a cold. Allergy season is off to an early start. [CBS New York]
- Itâs official: Phil Jackson is returning to the Knicks after 40 years â" as president. [New York Times]
- More than 75 percent of Staten Islanders are overweight, the borough president said. [DNAinfo]
- LâWren Scott, a designer who was Mick Jaggerâs longtime girlfriend, was found dead in her Chelsea apartment, an apparent suicide. [New York Times]
- Scoreboard: Nets dim Suns, 108-95.
Sandra E. Garcia contributed reporting.
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